Source: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/7-traditional-marriage-vows-what-they-mean-and-why-theyre-still-important/ There’s a reason traditional marriage vows have endured for centuries. Take a close look at what they say. I was in the middle of performing a wedding ceremony when my daughter Annie, who was 9 at the time, started frantically waving at me. Since she was a...
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God Design for marriage
Source: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/gods-design-for-marriage/ It’s easy to think that only “other people” get divorced, that your own marriage is somehow immune to heartache. Consequently, you think only others experience infidelity and fights over who gets the house, the car, the dog. After all, how many of us would walk down the aisle...
Take it from me : Don’t get a Divorce
Source: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/dont-get-divorce/ My dear friend, I was saddened, but not wholly surprised, to hear you are thinking about divorce. As I understand it, over the years you and your husband have argued with increasing bitterness. He doesn’t appreciate your many sacrifices on his behalf. He’s not a great provider....
A Guide to Forgiveness in Marriage by Reengage
Source: https://www.reengage.org/blog/a-guide-to-forgiveness-in-marriage Forgiveness is one of the most difficult lessons couples have to walk through. It’s a topic that many get hung up on. The victimized spouse will often have a really difficult time getting to a place where they feel they can forgive their spouse. They may feel...
What if I Can’t Forgive Myself? – by Reengage
Source: https://www.reengage.org/blog/what-if-i-cant-forgive-myself “I can’t forgive myself.” It’s a phrase I’ve heard many times, often from people who have cheated on their spouse or committed some other sin that hurt their family. It can be a massive weight, suffocating you with guilt and shame and preventing you restoring oneness with your spouse....
How Couples can heal after adultery
Source: https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/how-can-couples-heal-after-adultery We get a lot of heavy marriage questions, like this one today: How do you care for marriages after the pain of adultery? An anonymous woman writes in to ask. “Dear Pastor John, my husband and I have been married for several years and are walking alongside...
Marriage Gods Way
Source: https://biblicalcounselinginsights.com/blog/inner-peace/marriage-gods-way/ “… present yourselves to God …” (Romans 6:13). Sometimes it seems as though a long-lasting marriage is determined by chance or circumstances or just plain old luck. However, there are some steps that will enable you to establish your marriage on a solid foundation that will help you...
Successful Marriage
Source: https://biblicalcounselinginsights.com/life/successful-marriage/ Marriage Partnership The foundation upon which you build your marriage relationship is a mutually agreeable and mutually binding plan. That’s what makes marriage successful. It’s not a “tingle”; it’s a life-time commitment. It’s not competition; it’s cooperation. Is your partnership built on this foundation? Just as teammates...
Why Marriage Why Family ?
Source: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2015/04/why-marriage-why-family?lang=eng A family built on the marriage of a man and woman supplies the best setting for God’s plan to thrive. Above the Great West Door of the renowned Westminster Abbey in London, England, stand the statues of 10 Christian martyrs of the 20th century. Included among them...
Broken Homes In the Bible
Source: https://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/broken-homes-in-the-bible Unless you live in complete isolation, you have seen a broken home. Maybe it’s the family of a friend or a relative; maybe it’s your own home. Families fall apart in ways that are short-lived and lifelong, hidden from view and out there for everyone to see....