You should value your spouse's opinion more than that of your co-workers, family, and friends.
Don't base your decisions on the advice of those who don't have to deal with the results.
Every divorce is the result of selfishness on the part of one or the other or both parties to a marriage contract, conveniences, freedoms, luxuries, or ease. Sometimes the ceaseless pin pricking of an unhappy, discontented, and selfish spouse can finally add up to serious physical violence. Sometimes people are goaded to the point where they erringly feel justified in doing the things that are so wrong. Nothing of course justifies sin.
