Source: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/dont-get-divorce/ My dear friend, I was saddened, but not wholly surprised, to hear you are thinking about divorce. As I understand it, over the years you and your husband have argued with increasing bitterness. He doesn’t appreciate your many sacrifices on his behalf. He’s not a great provider....
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A Guide to Forgiveness in Marriage by Reengage
Source: https://www.reengage.org/blog/a-guide-to-forgiveness-in-marriage Forgiveness is one of the most difficult lessons couples have to walk through. It’s a topic that many get hung up on. The victimized spouse will often have a really difficult time getting to a place where they feel they can forgive their spouse. They may feel...
What if I Can’t Forgive Myself? – by Reengage
Source: https://www.reengage.org/blog/what-if-i-cant-forgive-myself “I can’t forgive myself.” It’s a phrase I’ve heard many times, often from people who have cheated on their spouse or committed some other sin that hurt their family. It can be a massive weight, suffocating you with guilt and shame and preventing you restoring oneness with your spouse....
How Couples can heal after adultery
Source: https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/how-can-couples-heal-after-adultery We get a lot of heavy marriage questions, like this one today: How do you care for marriages after the pain of adultery? An anonymous woman writes in to ask. “Dear Pastor John, my husband and I have been married for several years and are walking alongside...
Marriage Gods Way
Source: https://biblicalcounselinginsights.com/blog/inner-peace/marriage-gods-way/ “… present yourselves to God …” (Romans 6:13). Sometimes it seems as though a long-lasting marriage is determined by chance or circumstances or just plain old luck. However, there are some steps that will enable you to establish your marriage on a solid foundation that will help you...
Successful Marriage
Source: https://biblicalcounselinginsights.com/life/successful-marriage/ Marriage Partnership The foundation upon which you build your marriage relationship is a mutually agreeable and mutually binding plan. That’s what makes marriage successful. It’s not a “tingle”; it’s a life-time commitment. It’s not competition; it’s cooperation. Is your partnership built on this foundation? Just as teammates...
Why Marriage Why Family ?
Source: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2015/04/why-marriage-why-family?lang=eng A family built on the marriage of a man and woman supplies the best setting for God’s plan to thrive. Above the Great West Door of the renowned Westminster Abbey in London, England, stand the statues of 10 Christian martyrs of the 20th century. Included among them...
Broken Homes In the Bible
Source: https://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/broken-homes-in-the-bible Unless you live in complete isolation, you have seen a broken home. Maybe it’s the family of a friend or a relative; maybe it’s your own home. Families fall apart in ways that are short-lived and lifelong, hidden from view and out there for everyone to see....
Husbands 8 Abominations to Love Your Wife
Source: https://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/husbands-8-admonitions-love-your-wife “Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.” (Col. 3:19, NKJV) When God says, “Husbands, love your wives,” he speaks of the woman as a complex being. He calls every man to love his whole wife just as every man loves his whole self...
The Duties of Husbands and Wives by Richard Steele
Source: https://www.apuritansmind.com/the-christian-walk/the-christian-family/the-duties-of-husbands-and-wives-by-rev-richard-steele/ Today, many Christians are turning back to the puritans to, “walk in the old paths,” of God’s word, and to continue to proclaim old truth that glorifies Jesus Christ. There is no new theology. In our electronic age, more and more people are looking to add electronic...